THE MID(ISH) BLOG

The Complexity of Midlife: Eating, Body Image, and the Need for Clinical Attunement
By:  Autumn Backhaus, PhD 

We have good intentions.
We follow the science.
We promote prevention, longevity, and healthy aging.

But our training reinforces a narrow frame:

We screen young people fo...

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History has a habit of repeating itself—especially in women’s health. Postpartum mental health took decades to get our attention. Perimenopause and menopause can’t wait that long
By: Autumn Backhaus, PhD

We’ve seen this before.

Postpartum women came in describing emotional chaos: Anxiety, rage, disconnection, panic, insomnia, sadness. Obsessiveness. Extreme fears. Shame.

We...

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Perimenopause in the Sandwich Generation: A Perfect Storm—Why ‘Good Enough’ Is Your Best Strategy

By Shadi Gholizadeh, PhD, MPH

“I used to handle everything. Why am I suddenly unraveling over the smallest things?”

In my clinical work with high-achieving women, this is one of the most common—and ...

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ADHD, Hormones, and Midlife: Why So Many Women Are Asking, What’s Happening to My Brain?

By Shadi Gholizadeh, PhD, MPH

More and more women in midlife are asking versions of the same quiet question:

Why does my brain feel different—and why wasn’t I warned?

They describe lapses in focus,...

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My Emotions Are Out of Control: Rage, Sensitivity, and Perimenopause in Moms

She snapped.

Her 11-year-old was stalling on bedtime—again. The sixth “Just one more thing.” And suddenly, she was yelling. Not firm parenting, not boundary-setting. *Yelling.* “You make everything s...

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It Was Just a Favorite ’90s Movie—Until Midlife and Perimenopause Made It a Mirror

How Fried Green Tomatoes gave me language for perimenopause.

By: Autumn Backhaus, PhD

Before the age of 18, I’d watched Fried Green Tomatoes more than ten times.

Read the book too.

As a teenager i...

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Name It to Tame It: How Momopause™ Was Born

By: Autumn Backhaus, PhD

Two moms. One confusing midlife chapter. A shared realization that changed everything.

We were both quietly unraveling—forgetting things, snapping more than we wanted to, wa...

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What My 40s Taught Me About Fertility, Perimenopause, and Self-Compassion fertility perimenopause self-compassion

By: Autumn Backhaus, PhD

This one’s vulnerable.

To the women in their late 30s and early 40s who are still trying to build their families—or aren’t even sure yet if they want to, but know that famil...

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